After my 19-year-old daughter, Dorothy, won the recent Giant
Eagle LPGA Classic in Warren, Ohio, there was a lot of talk
about my being one of those overbearing Little League dads. Let
me set the record straight. Dorothy learned the game from me,
starting when she was eight and tagged along on Saturdays while
I played with friends. Since then I have been her coach,
psychologist and caddie all rolled into one, but in no way have
I been as controlling as, say, Jennifer Capriati's father or
Todd Marinovich's dad.
I'll be the first to admit that I pushed Dorothy, but I did it
because I was aware that she had a special talent. Ever since she
was 10 and won her age division in the San Francisco City, I knew
she had what it takes to become a standout golfer--at any level.
Like a typical kid, Dorothy didn't like to practice. When she
turned 16 she wanted to get a job to earn some money. I told her
that her job was golf, and to be fair, I paid her to practice.
When Dorothy turned pro, I sold my carpet cleaning business so I
could go on tour with her and protect my investment. While I
didn't expect her to win as a rookie, I did count on her to play
well. Eventually, I expect her to be one of the best players on
I know what you're thinking: I pushed Dorothy into golf so I
could become rich and famous. That's not true. I told Dorothy
that she has to help out her 19-year-old sister, Devina, who is
an aspiring golfer; 14-year-old sister Dodisa, who wants to be a
lawyer; and 11-year-old brother, Arsenio Jr. My payoff is the
satisfaction I get from molding a great player.
August 13, 2000
Even though Dorothy has found the winner's circle, my work isn't
done. There are many things she needs to learn if she's to
become the best. The day she beats my alltime low score--a 63 at
Skywest Golf Course, in Hayward, Calif.--is the day I leave her
alone. Until then, she'll just have to deal with dear ol' Dad.
Arsenio (Sonny) Delasin, 48, is a seven handicapper.