Her name is Sara. She is a sophomore, and she is on the cheerleading squad. This is her first year at a new school, Borah High in Boise, Idaho, and like most girls her age, she did not plan to go against the flow. It just kind of happened that way.
It happened because
One day, while walking down the hallway at her new school with a fellow cheerleader, Sara saw a poster advertising boys' lacrosse tryouts. She'd signed up for the girls' team at Borah, but quickly decided it wasn't for her; she called the boys' coach,
This is the story of how Sara Maras joined the boys' lacrosse team. In the beginning, everything was astoundingly easy; with a few exceptions, her male teammates accepted her without vocal protest, and once she explained why she wanted to play boys' lacrosse rather than girls' lacrosse -- and once she absorbed their hits during practice and struck back just as hard -- they totally understood. "If I were you," they said, "I'd probably do it, too
"We trusted her more after that; we felt she was doing the right thing," said one of her teammates,
Yet the real problem was not with her classmates; the real problem arose when the adults got involved. Jones petitioned the board of the Treasure Valley Lacrosse League to allow Sara to play, citing the non-discrimination clause in his school's constitution. But in Sara, certain people, including many of the coaches and parents who make up the board, saw a troublesome precedent. They worried about her getting hurt, and they worried about boys being afraid to play at full speed, and they worried about dozens more girls choosing boys' lacrosse over girls' lacrosse -- an unlikely occurrence, but one that could weaken both sports. This is Idaho, an overwhelmingly conservative state, and Sara's petition, according to league commissioner
"We're a fairly new sport, a club sport, but we try to follow their rules," said Smith, whose job is merely to enforce the whim of the board. In March, the board voted 18-4 to not allow Maras to compete on the boys' team. But Jones, abiding by Borah's charter, chose to allow Maras to play with the junior varsity. Smith planned to suspend Jones for one game each time Maras played with the JV, but then the JV team folded due to a lack of interest and Jones played Mara in a varsity game.
And now everything is at an impasse: Maras has a lawyer on her side, and the board has a lawyer on their side, and no one seems to know what might happen next. Meanwhile, Erik Jones is continuing to coach, and Sara Maras is continuing to play.
It's kind of weird to Maras, all this attention. Speaking on the phone the other day, she was bubbly and effusive and insistent that this is not meant as some kind of grandiose statement. To her, this is about exposing the undeniable reality that girls' lacrosse and boys' lacrosse are two radically disparate versions of the same sport. Both were played by the same rules until the 1930s -- girls' lacrosse is more faithful to the original Native American pastime, but the boys' game evolved into something completely distinct, more physical, more tolerant of incidental contact. In fact, said
There is not a lot of precedent for girls endeavoring to play boys' lacrosse; it happens on occasion, Stenersen says, but it's not something USA Lacrosse has put a lot of thought into. Mostly, when it occurs, it's in a case like Sara's. Lacrosse is one of the fastest-growing youth sports in the country, and sometimes a girl will learn the game among boys, and then not want to cross over. "I would encourage her to play the girls' game," Stenersen says, "because the girls' game is designed for girls and women specifically."
But all Sara Maras wants to know is, Why she should
In Indiana in 2009, a 15-year-old girl filed a lawsuit for the right to try out for her baseball team, citing Title IX and the Equal Protection Clause of the Constitution. Eventually, the Indiana association dropped the suit, figuring it would lose, and while the girl didn't make the team, she was afforded the opportunity. Nobody would ever refer to baseball and softball as the same game, and nobody expects an influx of females abandoning softball. But if a girl can throw a fastball that makes her worthy of a spot on the baseball team, how is it just to deny her that chance? And if girls' and boys' lacrosse are even more disparate than baseball and softball, why shouldn't the same precedent apply?
It's not just Sara who feels that way. Soon after her petition was denied, Jones called a team meeting to discuss whether Borah was willing to potentially forfeit its season in order to allow Sara on their team. They sat in a circle, and Sara felt so stupid, and she cried, and she had to explain, once again, why she was insistent about playing this version of the sport she'd come to love.
What happened next stunned her. What happened next, she says, was a miracle. What happened next was that everyone voted in her favor.
"If they can't man up and play against a girl," someone said, "that's their problem."