The Dark Side of the Transfer Portal No One Talks About

The transfer portal.
Those three words elicit a wealth of emotions.
Many fans of college softball programs despise the transfer portal. Terms like "disloyal", "uncommitted", "afraid of competition", "chasing their bag" are thrown out to explain why your favorite player is no longer with your college's program.
Yes, there are players in the portal for these reasons, but for many players, entering the portal is a matter of finding a better fit, improving their mental health, securing increased playing time, or, in many cases, because they had no choice.
The unspoken other side of the portal is when a player is...in no uncertain terms told that they are no longer welcome back on the team, and they are "encouraged" to enter the portal.
Texas Tech has found the NIL loophole – and is using it to flip the transfer portal on its head.
— Softball OnSI (@SoftballOnSI) June 12, 2025
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This typically occurs when there is a coaching change. This is not a criticism of a new coach. They have the right to build their program as they see fit, but that might come at the expense of current players on the roster.
For example, I was at a recruit camp a few weeks ago. There was a pitcher there that I knew, and she was listed in the directory given to the coaches as "transfer portal eligible" (to protect the player and the program, their names will be omitted).
I knew this player from both local travel ball and local high school (I actually recruited her), and I knew she had committed to a school in California.
During a break in the camp, I asked her why she was there, as I also knew she was happy with her decision to attend this particular school. She told me that a new coach was hired, and within days of the hire, she received a text stating that she no longer had a roster spot, and while she could remain at the institution at her previous scholarship level, she would no longer be a part of the softball program.
She had to choices.
One, stay at the school and not play softball anymore, or two, enter the transfer portal.
She was not uncommitted to the program. She had planned on fighting for a roster spot, and she wasn't chasing any NIL money. She was simply given no other options. So, she entered the portal.
Thank you texas tech for all the memories, opportunities, and love you gave.
— Bailey Lindemuth (@B_Lindemuth2024) June 15, 2025
I have entered the transfer portal with 3 years of eligibility. pic.twitter.com/QGzcf8DTDA
Luckily, she has found a new home, albeit at a lower scholarship amount that at her previous school.
College coaches have two jobs: graduate athletes and win games. Sometimes winning becomes the No. 1 focus.
You can't keep your job if you continue to lose, as college sports are now such a money-focused enterprise. So, coaches have to make tough decisions, and if coaches see that they can quickly improve by recruiting portal players, they will take that option.
In many cases, that comes at the expense of current rostered players.
So, before you throw out those negative terms when you are railing against the portal, remember, there are a lot of players there because they had no other option.

Coach Michael Gross is the Head Coach of Southwestern College after being the lead assistant at SWC for 1 season and 7 successful years coaching at Olympian High school in Chula Vista. At Olympian, Coach Gross won 2 CIF titles (2015, 2018) and made playoffs in 5 of his 7 years at the helm. Coach Gross is well known in the South Bay softball community as he has coached for over 20 years in the community. He started coaching at Bonita Valley Girls Softball in 2004 and was a member of the Bonita Valley Board for 12 years. Coach Gross also coaches internationally as the U15/U13 National Team Head Coach for the Israeli National softball program and will ne coaching Israeli U13 National team Head Coach that will compete in Italy in the summer of 2025. Coach Gross was also the Coach for the USA open division softball team in the 2022 Maccabi games in Israel where they took home the silver medal. Coach Gross has extensive recruiting experience and has been the college recruiting advisor for the Firecracker travel ball program and has helped over 100 students commit to a college to play softball. Coch Gross has coached at every level of organized softball, from rec ball, to travel ball, to high school and now at the college level. Coach Gross is also a professional public address announcer and announces games for San Diego State, UC San Diego, Point Loma Nazarene, CIF-San Diego Section, Southwestern College, and several local high schools. Coach Gross is a University of Phoenix Graduate (2000) in Business Management and obtained his Masters Degree from Concordia University – Irvine (2021) with an emphasis in Coaching and Exercise Science. Coach Gross is a native San Diegan and lives in Chula Vista with his wife Lisa, daughters Sarah, Emily, and Alyssa, and his 3 dogs… Archie, Max and Molly.
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