OAKLAND, Calif. (AP) When Bob Myers hosts a dinner party, he is the guy who once it's all over has a pretty good read on the entire evening: who had a great time, who held something back, which couples are getting along, who might be dealing with a life challenge but chose to keep it private.
''All those things go through my mind, without me trying to. Some people, none of that goes through their mind,'' Myers said. ''They ate, and did what they did. I don't know why those things are. I don't know how you are. ... We all have different intuitions and skills.''
Usually, he is spot on. And his instincts also carry over to the workplace.
The Golden State Warriors' general manager has that same kind of feel for his entire operation - from those staffers behind the scenes, to the coaches, the MVPs and the role players, helping to forge a tight-knit team in its third straight NBA Finals.
''There's a lot of things I have no clue on and then you bring people in to your blind spots and say, `Look, I'm not good at this, can you help me in this area?''' he said. ''That's also being self-aware. What does it mean? It just means we're attentive to people. Everybody wants to feel appreciated. Everybody wants to know that they matter. We all matter in our own unique ways. So, does that help our team? I don't know. It helps that we have really good players.''
Myers has found a balance being involved just enough in the day-to-day. Hands-on when needed while knowing when to back off.
One day, Myers stands in the middle of the center practice court meeting with Steve Kerr. He might be speaking to Andre Iguodala or Draymond Green. Another time, he leans against a back wall checking in with Mike Brown, who has been coaching the team during Kerr's absence following a procedure to repair a spinal fluid leak stemming from complications after two back surgeries in 2015.
Myers does sit-ups on a stability ball while chatting up Stephen Curry, antsy for practice to wrap up so the GM can get to hooping himself.
That genuine care for the person and not just the basketball player that Myers shows in all he does went a long way in Kevin Durant leaving Oklahoma City last July to join the Warriors. Sure, a star-studded roster didn't hurt either.
''He doesn't walk around like he's the leader. We know he makes the big decisions but we work together, all of us, him and Steve especially. If you see Bob walking with a group of Warriors employees, you wouldn't know he's Bob Myers, the president of the team. He just fits in with everybody,'' Durant said. ''We talk so much about great leaders being just ahead of the pack most of the time but sometimes that doesn't have to be your personality. It could be encouraging, working with others, learning and listening. All those traits he has, and I think that's why he's ahead of the pack.
''That's what drew me here.''
In a pre-playoff practice, the 42-year-old ex-sports agent and former player at UCLA stood holding a basketball while wearing sweats and no shoes - his typical, understated NBA executive style. He pulled on some bright blue high-tops and started stretching out his quadriceps for one of those regular staff pickup games he so enjoys because it allows him a break from being ''leashed'' to his smartphone.
Myers picks his moments, or, in some cases, Kerr assists. After Golden State fell behind 2-1 at Memphis in the second round of the 2015 playoffs, the coach called Myers over afterward and sought his input, a gesture the GM appreciates to this day.
He respects his role and the specific jobs of everyone who works with him. He doesn't look at it as if he is above the rest.
''The best thing we can do is be who we are, whatever that is,'' Myers said. ''We're all drawn to authenticity. We like people who are real. Sometimes real people are flawed, we're all flawed. I think we connect with people who are open, exposed, willing to admit things they're good at, things they're not good at, try to be humble, try to be collaborative.''
Golden State wound up coming back to beat the Grizzlies on the way to winning it all in `15 for the franchise's first championship in 40 years. The Warriors squandered a 3-1 Finals lead last year to Cleveland to miss a repeat title. Then, Myers - with help from Curry, Green, Iguodala, Klay Thompson and Kerr - lured Durant away from the Thunder to make another deep run. An acquisition accomplished as a team, in Myers' mind.
''He's a listener and an observer and that's what I love about him,'' Kerr said. ''He's really, really bright and he understands people. The reason he understands people is because he watches and observes and doesn't have to dominate the conversation.''
Myers might spend extra time watching the backups, who often stay late for extra scrimmaging to keep sharp.
He doesn't interfere, yet they know he's there.
''He's got a really special quality of being here and then staying in the background at the same time,'' Kerr said. ''He gets it. I think that's the way he approaches his life. He's very modest and yet he's very confident. He's very knowledgeable and yet he listens. He's never the know-it-all guy who has to show he's the smartest in the room but he actually is the smartest in the room.''
When Myers moves about team headquarters in downtown Oakland he also blends right in with any group. That's how easy he is to have around - and much like the scene at one of his dinner parties, he has a gauge on the vibe.
''He understands how important it is for him to be aware of everything that's going on, how everybody's feeling,'' Curry said. ''It's a tough job, for sure, to have to balance, manage, all these different personalities and the ups and downs of the season. He's bridged the gap between upstairs and downstairs. All that responsibility, it all pays out when we all succeed, and a lot of that goes to what Bob does on a day-to-day basis. ... He finds a way to be personable, to be connected to every single person in our organization. And it's very genuine. That goes a long way.''
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